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FAQs

Why do narcs keep your things? ›

Narcissists tend to hold onto objects that remind them of their exes as "trophies" — a way to brag about the relationship to others.

When a narcissist realizes your refusal to be controlled, they panic because their demands are no longer met. They'll become coercive, manipulative, and potentially aggressive. On the other hand, they might become superficially charming to lure you back in before they start controlling you again.

Narcissists also gaslight or practice master manipulation, weakening and destabilizing their victims; finally, they utilize positive and negative emotions or moments to trick others. When a narcissist can't control you, they'll likely feel threatened, react with anger, and they might even start threatening you.

You were too difficult for them to control. You were easily manipulated by them, causing them to look down upon you. You no longer fuel their ego, so they've moved on to someone else who can supply what they need. You may not be able to help them any further with their life goals, so they've found someone who can.

Key points. Any public embarrassment of a narcissist causes further anger, rage, and incivility. As a narcissist faces failure, arrest, indictment, or dismissal, they will endlessly air their grievances.

Say nothing. Anything you say feeds them and encourages them. Not only say nothing, but block them from every single area of your life and don't look at anything of theirs. As we know, ghosting is crappy, cowardly behavior, but if you are dealing with a narcissist, it's absolutely appropriate as well.

At the end of a relationship, a narcissist's actions can range from combative to passive-aggressive, reflecting their inability to handle rejection or perceived criticism.

Narcissists hate losing their supply, so they won't let you go easily. Prepare for them to promise "to change." They might suddenly start doing things for you that you'd been complaining about. They may say "you'll be lost without me," or "you'll never find someone like me."

They want to keep you hanging

They may try to manipulate you into revealing how badly you hurt them. This tactic can work, but the reality is that the narcissist will never respond to your efforts. This is one of the reasons why narcissists refuse to offer closure.

Why do narcissists hate when you leave? ›

Losing supply

Narcissists hate to lose a good supply. So if they see you breaking away, they might tell you what they know you want to hear. They'll make promises and say pretty much whatever is needed to get you back since hoovering is what narcissists do best.

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